Voice Dialogue Articles and Tips

Voice Dialogue Articles

By Hal Stone, Ph.D. and Sidra Stone, Ph.D.
and Michael Domeyko Rowland

  1. The Basic Elements of Voice Dialogue, Relationship, and the Psychology of Selves…their origins and development
  2. Embracing All Our Selves An introduction to the theoretical framework of “the Psychology of Selves”.
  3. The Dance of the Selves in Relationship The interactions of these selves in relationship.
  4. The Inner Critic An introduction to the the Inner Critic
  5. A Professional Point of View – the Psychology of Selves “The Psychology of Selves” written for mental health professionals.
  6. The Origins of Voice Dialogue How did Voice Dialogue begin?
  7. Consciousness and Spirituality A letter to and response from Hal Stone, Ph.D.
  8. Reawakening the Heart by Michael Domeyko Rowland
  9. Brochure for Professionals and Educational Institutions.

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Issue 1 SOME THOUGHTS ON THE INNER CRITIC
Issue 2 SOME THOUGHTS ON THE INNER PATRIARCH
Issue 3 USING JUDGEMENT TO LEARN ABOUT YOURSELF – AND YOUR SELVES
Issue 4 SOME THOUGHTS ON ENERGETIC CONNECTION
Issue 5 DREAMS: GOD’S FORGOTTEN LANGUAGE
Issue 6 THE DISOWNED INSTINCTUAL ENERGIES AND THE DREAM PROCESS
Issue 7 ABOUT VULNERABILITY
Issue 8 HOLIDAY SELVES
Issue 9 KNOW YOUR SELVES
Issue 10 DECISION MAKING AND VOICE DIALOGUE
Issue 11 RELATIONSHIP & BONDING PATTERNS: PART 1
Issue 12 RELATIONSHIP & BONDING PATTERNS: PART 2 – POSITIVE BONDING PATTERNS
Issue 13 RELATIONSHIP & BONDING PATTERNS: PART 3- NEGATIVE BONDING PATTERNS
Issue 14 DREAMS AS A WINDOW TO YOUR INNER SELVES – Part1
Issue 15 DREAMS AS A WINDOW TO YOUR INNER SELVES – Part 2
Issue 16 ILLNESS AS TEACHER
Issue 17 JUDGMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS – Part 1
Issue 18 JUDGMENT IN RELATIONSHIPS – Part 2
Issue 19 DISOWNED SELVES AND PATHOLOGY
Issue 20 THE AWARE EGO AND THE HIGHER SELF
Issue 21 THE NEGATIVE EGO
Issue 22 SEPARATING FROM PRIMARY SELVES – One Secret of Graceful Aging
Issue 23 IT WAS ONLY A DREAM – Learning To Honour The Creative Imagination in Children
Issue 24 SOME THOUGHTS ON ENLIGHTENMENT
Issue 25 CONSCIOUS BODY – Healing with Inner Selves
Issue 26 THE BASIC ELEMENTS OF VOICE DIALOGUE, RELATIONSHIP AND THE PSYCHOLOGY OF SELVES  – 10 Part Series
Part 1 – Hal’s Earliest Influences and Experiences
Issue 27 Part 2 – Sidra’s Earliest Influences and Experiences
Issue 28 Part 3 – Voice Dialogue as a Methodology: The Beginning of a Joint Adventure
Issue 29 Part 4 – The Psychology Of Selves: The Beginning of Theory
Issue 30 Part 5 – The Consciousness Model: A New Definition of Consciousness
Issue 31 Part 6 –  The Theory of Bonding Patterns: The Selves & Relationship
Issue 32 Part 7 – The Psychology Of The Aware Ego
Issue 33 Part 8 – The Energetics of Voice Dialogue
Issue 34 Part 9 – Partnering in Relationship
Issue 35 Part 10 – Dreams, Daydreams and The Intelligence Of The Unconscious Coming
Issue 36 What is the Aware Ego’s role
Issue 37 Partnering: A New Kind Of Relationship
Issue 38 The Language Of The Body
Issue 39 Sustainable Intimacy in Relationships
Issue 40 Meditation and Voice Dialogue
Issue 41 The Top Ten Challenges to Relationship:
Keeping Your Love Alive Amid Life’s Routines
Challenge 1 – Television
Issue 42 Challenge 2 – Work
Issue 43 Challenge 3 – Other Relationships in Fact & Fantasy
Issue 44 Challenge 4 – Friends
Issue 45 Challenge 5 – Children
Issue 46 Challenge 6 – Doing Rather Than Being
Issue 47 Challenge 7 – Computers – The New Mystical Lover
Issue 48 Challenge 8 – Alcohol and Drugs
Issue 49 Challenge 9 – Becoming A Psychological Know-It-All
Issue 50 Challenge 10 – Maintaining A “Perfect” Relationship
Issue 51 Hal & Sidra Stone – On Judgment
Issue 52 Part 1 – Opening To The Inner World: Transpersonal Reality by Hal Stone
Issue 53 Part 2 – Opening To The Inner World: Zurich -The Process Deepens by Hal Stone
Issue 54 Part 3 – Jungian Years: Further Development of Spiritual Energies by Hal Stone
Issue 55 Part 4 – Disowning Instinctual Energies
Issue 56 Part 5 – Integrating Instinctual Energies
Issue 57 Part 6 – Leaving The Nest
Issue 58 What is the role of Free Will?
Don’t we have the ability to make free choices?
Issue 59 Voice Dialogue – Discovering Ourselves
Issue 60 Awakening by Sidra L. Stone, an excerpt from The Fireside Chats
Issue 61 Some Down To Earth Suggestions for Keeping Your Relationship Alive, from The Fireside Chats.
Suggestion 1 – Respect Each Other
Issue 62 Suggestion 2 – Showing Respect by Dressing for each other as you would for someone else.
Suggestion 3 – Do No Harm
Suggestion 4 – Privacy
Issue 63 Suggestion 5 – Don’t be too shy-or just forget-to say nice things to each other
Suggestion 6 – Sharing Vulnerability
Issue 64 Suggestion 7 – Respectful Disagreement
Suggestion 8 – Veto Power
Issue 65 Sharing Dreams
Issue 66 A Question about a Repetitive Dream
Issue 67 Keep Connected ( or Energetically Linked )
Issue 68 Rest Into Each Other – Don’t Abdicate
Business Meetings
Issue 69 Acountability
Holding The Narrative of the Relationship
Issue 70 From Enlightenment to The Aware Ego Process to Source Energy
Issue 71 Some Thoughts About Prophecies
Issue 72 Near Death Experiences ( NDE’s)
Issue 73 How Strong is Your Inner Critic ?
Issue 74 Disowned Instinctual Energies and The Voice Dialogue Process
Issue 75 Disowned Selves – Our Lost Heritage – 6 Parts
Part 1 – Introduction
Issue 76 Part 2 – How We Develop
Issue 77 Part 3 – Cultural Aspects of the Disowning Process: The Birth of the Demonic
Issue 78 Part 4 – Encountering the Demonic I : Embracing Our Disowned Selves
Issue 79 Part 5 – Encountering the Demonic II : Embracing Our Disowned Selves
Issue 80 Part 6 – Encountering the Demonic: III: Embracing Our Disowned Selves
Issue 81 Vulnerability – 9 Parts
Part 1 – The Key To Intimacy In Relationship
Issue 82 Part 2 – The Vulnerable Child
Issue 83 Part 3 – Disowning The Vulnerable Child
Issue 84 Part 4 – Using Voice Dialogue to gain access to The Vulnerable Child
Issue 85 Part 5 – The Neglected Vulnerable Child
Issue 86 Part 6 – The Resilience of The Vulnerable Child
Issue 87 Part 7 – Caring for The Vulnerable Child
Issue 88 Part 8 – Caring for The Vulnerable Child continued
Issue 89 Part 9 – The Role of the Impersonal Self in caring for The Vulnerable Child
Issue 90 Beware of The Cave of The Heart : A Dream and Commentary by Hal Stone
Issue 91 Source Intelligence and Core Vulnerability by Hal Stone Part 1 of 2
Issue 92 Source Intelligence and Core Vulnerability by Hal Stone Part 2 of 2
Issue 93 Falling In Love – 3 Parts
Part 1 – Falling In Love
Issue 94 Part 2 – Changes In Our Selves
Issue 95 Part 3 – The Gift Of Selves
Issue 96 Where Has Love Gone
Part 1 – Bonding Patterns in Primary Relationship
Issue 97 Part 2 – Bonding Patterns in Primary Relationship continued
Issue 98 Part 3 – Being “Strong’ in Relationship
Issue 99 Part 4 – Love is Not Enough
Issue 100 Part 5 – The Disapproving Mother
Issue 101 Part 6 – The Energetic Reality of Bonding Patterns
Issue 102 Part 7 – Personal and Impersonal Energy: A Bonding Natural
Issue 103 Part 8 – Money and Who Controls It: Another Natural forBonding
Issue 104 Part 9 – The Patriarchal Heritage and Money in BondingPatterns
Issue 105 Part 10 – Identification with the Good Parent and Its Consequences
Issue 106 Part 11 – Good Fathers Good Mothers and the Denial of Instinct
Issue 107 Part 12 – Sacrificing Ones Selves to Make the Relationship Work
Issue 108 Part 13 – Bonding Through Our Judgmental Selves
Issue 109 Part 14 – The Inner Critic and Its Effect on Bonding
Issue 110 Affairs and Attractions
Part 1 – Affairs and Attractions
Issue 111 Part 2 – Affairs and Attractions
The Vulnerable Child In Relationship
Issue 112 Part 3 – Affairs and Attractions
Everyone Has Attractions
Issue
113
Part 4 – Attractions and Affairs
Everyone Has Attractions….continued
Issue 114 Part 5 – Attractions and Affairs
Attractions Are Part Of The Process
Issue 115 Part 6 – Attractions and Affairs
Attractions Are Part Of The Process…continued
Issue 116 Part 7 – Attractions and Affairs
The Role of Affairs in Relationship
Issue 117 Part 8 – Attractions and Affairs
The Role of Affairs in Relationship…continued
Issue 118 Enhancing Relationships
Part 1
Issue 119 Part 2 – Letting Go
Issue 120 Part 3 – Personal Sharing
Issue 121 Part 4 – Dealing with Negativity in Relationship
Issue 122 Part 5 – Sexuality
Issue 123 Part 6 – Sexuality…continued
Issue 124 Part 7 – Jealousy
Issue 125 Part 8 – Marriage as a Business Relationship
Issue 126 Part 9 – Leaving the Known Place
Issue 127 Part 10 – The ‘Being’ State and Silent Time
Issue 128 Part 11 – Visual Imagery in Relationship
Issue 129 Part 12 – Ritual and Spiritual Practices in Relationship
Issue 130 Part 13 – Self Containment and Neediness in Relationship
Issue 131 Part 14 – Self Sufficiency in Relationship
Issue 132 Part 15 – The Dream Process – Relationship as a Journey of Two Souls
Issue 133 Part 16 – The Dream Weaver in Relationship
Issue 134 Part 17 – Dreams and Bonding Patterns
Issue 
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Part 18 – Objective Feedback on the Relationship and
Changes in Consciousness as Reflected in Dreams
Issue
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Part 19 – Breaking Family Bonding Patterns 
Issue
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Part 20 – The Dream Weaver Gives Advice and
Relationship  Helps  to Recover the Treasure
Issue 138 Part 21 – I Can’t Be Truly Me Unless I Have You
Issue 
139
Part 22 – A New Path: Relationship as Guide
Issue
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Part 23 – Relationship  as a Teacher for the Planet